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El Hombre de la Mancha

February 13, 2014

A poem while on a bus, doing some medical work in Honduras. Still needs some polishing…

“El Hombre de la Mancha”
Jan 30, 2014

We’re packed like bananas–
The bus curtains flapping like plantain leaves, thin and hot in the breeze,
Honduran music crackling loud from someone’s ancient cell phone
A few seats back.
You’re sitting just across the aisle from me,
Close enough to tap your elbow into my ribs–
If we were friends who made jokes,
Or if there weren’t several bodies standing stacked in the aisle between us.

We make an odd pair riding together:
I, tall and skinny;
You, short and stout.
I, with a pen in my hand like a lance;
You, with a cap to shield your graying head.
But what is that?
…On the tip of your nose
A spot
To some, perhaps just an ink stain or a birthmark
But to any doctor, it’s a melanoma.
A black tick the size of a penny,
A monster engorged on your life blood.
It’s cancer–“crab-like”–doomed to crawl
to your bones
to your liver
to your brain.

The only hope of cure is radical resection–
No easy feat
In a country
Where most towns have no doctors
Where most cities have no specialists
…Unless you’re rich.

Today, I turned 30. I went to a beach.
Today, you received a question whispered from a gringo doctor as you were leaving the bus to walk home to your family,
Asking if the little spot on your nose was growing.
And when you said, “sí,”
You were told that you likely have cancer…
That you should see a doctor immediately…

You, with your nod and “gracias” and handshake,
You have driven a needle into my heart…
The bleeding will stop, but a scar will remain.

Hours later, as the moon, sharp as a sickle, rises over the Honduran hills,
And the bus plods onward like sick cow
I’m trying to use my rosary beads
To wash away the feeling that I should have done more
Or to plead to God
That a warning from a stranger
Might have saved a good man’s life.


[Please pray for him. I’ll try to write more about Honduras when I find some time.]

Those Tragedies (A Sonnet)

April 5, 2013



Written recently on the train, with deep sympathy for friends who have recently suffered tragedy.


Those Tragedies
[A Sonnet]

Those tragedies grave that to some befall–
Their home destroyed entire by flood or fumes
Their child lost in birth or whilst in the womb–
Are trials suffered by few but feared by all.

And when such gates of darkness open wide,
Our blood runs black, and our hearts ask, “God, why?”
But Job fails when he such probing persists;
And Alyosha can only give a kiss.

When words or time cannot grave loss restore
Let’s grasp our Lady’s hand all the more
To hear ‘Eloi, Eloi’ shrieked above,
And trust our lives are shaped by deepest Love
That will transform anew what we treasure most
Raised by the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.


Loving in Latitude

January 30, 2013


I recently witnessed an event on the Boston metro. I took some notes, and I’ve turned it into a poem. This is my first attempt at free verse, so no promises that it’s any good.

“Loving in Latitude”

Her eyes plow towards the right, then swing
Then glide again fitfully right, only to
Flit left.
But all the time, making steady
Like some pair of unassuming bumble bees
Or hummingbirds
Supping their way down the garden rows.
But these wings
Beat far swifter than eighty times every second–
As innumerable synapses fire, and ions are
In that magical transformation whereby carbon on a page
Becomes a word,
a sentence,
a thought,
a pattern.
Matter                moves                mind.
And the soul is lifted,
Even more than some youtoobian
Double rainbow.

“Loving in Latitude”–
It’s printed on the book’s blue cover.
A cover that protects the still freshly white leaves,
A cover that is grasped
By ringless, slender white fingers
Of a strawberry blonde figure
With cesious hummingbird eyes,
A scarlet pea coat,
Indigo jeans,
And a pair of burnt umber boots.
A violet JanSport backpack lies at her feet,
With the small ribbon, pink as a crab,
Clasped tight to the pocket
By a safety pin,
And a small silver cross
Pierced nearby.
Those bees continue their typewriter path
A man steps onto the metro car
Like a loon
His current flight and dubious plight.
That herd of glazed gazing eyes, momentarily distracted
From their own mindless zigzag stares at the spaces outside
Giving a condescending somersault,
Resume their thoughtless course.
So too the flock of young hens, pecking away at their iPhones
Stops for but a moment,
To return to their Angry Birds.
But the bumblebee in red,
Unzips the violet
And brings out her honey nut granola bar–
a study snack, no doubt–
And hands it to the loon
With a smile.
Just then
As the lurching, faded iron metro cars screech to my
I step out into the barren coldness
Knowing I will never see the hummingbird again
But wondering if I too
Can learn to
Love in Latitude.

An Ancient Beauty

January 28, 2013


“Late have I loved you, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new” -St Augustine, Confessions

Do we take the time to appreciate the beauty and charm of the elderly? I’ll spare everyone the latest stories from the hospital and instead give an anecdote from a recent flight to Texas over Christmas break.

As I rolled down the aisle, counting down to my row… 15, 16, 17, 18 — there in 18D was an 80-ish-year-old lady. She was in the aisle seat, and I needed to get to the window. When she saw this, she smiled, propped her black cane on the outside armrest, and then gracefully swung both of her little tan-stocking-ed legs around the armrest. Her dentured teeth grinned from behind her bright-red-lipsticked lips. On the flight, she soon dozed off–what a blessed nap–and I couldn’t help but notice her finely pencil-accentuated eyebrows, her worn-with-age-but-still-beautiful wedding band, and her festive Christmas-Tree ring. She had a red sweater and one of those brass ‘jingle bells’ hung on a string around her neck. Her vein-accentuated, leathery hands may not have had the softness or musculature they once did, but they bespoke a life given for others. Indeed, she reminded me of those dozens of nameless old ladies who volunteer in our hospitals — smiling as people like me whisk by. Or I think of the countless elderly women who come dutifully to daily Mass, who place flowers near the altar, who begin the rosary in soft but steady voices.
Then I thought to myself: “The Kingdom of God is of such as these.” When our flight landed, she said the first and last words I heard from her, revealing her Texas drawl. As I helped bring her bag down from the overhead bin, a simple, “Well thank you, kind sir.”

No, thank YOU, ma’am.

A Winter’s Tale: Pediatric Poetry

January 16, 2013



Another little stab at poetry…


“This time of year thou mayst in babes behold”

A Pediatric Resident’s Pseudo-Sonnet
(cf. Shakespeare‘s Sonnet LXXIII)

This time of year thou mayst in babes behold
The mucus yellow, white, or clear that drips
Upon each little nostril and each lip
That wail against that vile disease called “cold.”
But ask me not just to dole out the ‘script,
Unless membrane doth bulge or rales are heard.
Nor shout for an IV if juice is sipped;
Nor weepest thou if the nebs are deferred.
Recall “Do no harm”: some meds aren’t good for you.
But ‘roids I’ll use for asthma or for croup,
And Tamiflu if under two with flu,
And for RSV it’s time, nebs, and O2.
Remember that we’re in this together,
And your child’s health is our top endeavor.
We know it’s hard and you might not admire us,
But we’re oft pleased when it’s “only a virus.”
That’s why our training lasts forever:
To know when it’s bad, or just the weather.


Losing a Friend to Drugs

January 5, 2013


I recently heard that an old friend passed away.  He was his parents’ only child: please pray for him and his family.  Who can imagine the grief of a mother or father or grandmother who survive to see their child die in their prime?  The last words I have from him were in a phone text (we invited him to come out to eat a few days before, but he and a couple of others could not come):

“I’m sorry I’ll miss you boys. All my love!”

A few days later, I replied to his text to invite him to a different dinner party… only to learn that he had passed away.  We will miss you and your loving heart sorely, my friend. Your death is a shock that my mind can still scarcely accept as real. Κύριε, ἐλέησον. God willing, we will meet again in those realms of Eternal Joy, where “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away” (Rev 21.4).

Since before the time of Job, the human mind has attempted to make sense of tragedy and suffering.  Rather than write on the Christian approach to theodicy, however, I (being a neophyte physician) would prefer to discuss how these sorts of tragic deaths could be avoided in the first place. Even if I knew the details of my friend’s death, I certainly would not publish them.  But suffice it to say that he had struggled with substance abuse.

In our age group of 25-34, drug use (whether prescription medication abuse/overdose, or illicit drug use) is THE leading cause of death.  In particular, death from the abuse of prescription narcotics is quickly becoming an epidemic in the USA: the death rate has more than tripled since 1999.  Currently 100 people die daily from drug overdoses. Hence the movement to get the prescription nasal spray Narcan (which can reverse narcotic overdose) distributed into the hands of non-medical friends and family of narcotic abusers. If you are close to someone with substance abuse problems, please seek out the proper resources for them (whether Narcan nearby, rehab, etc.). Once drugs are in a person’s brain, it often becomes extremely difficult for that person to quit or to make responsible decisions.  Recent studies with functional MRI scans demonstrate how drugs make structural and functional changes in those areas of the brain responsible for impulse control, motivation, etc. In short, the brain is “re-wired” and does not function as it should.  As one neurologist taught us in medical school, drugs effectively “spoil” the brain by giving a strong reward signal without any reason/challenge for this reward.

When the “drug overdose” is rolled into the ER, you might see people rolling their eyes. But those of us fortunate enough not to be struggling with addictions are in no place to judge.  Where would you or I be if we grew up in the street, where this was our only “out”?  Or if we had chronic pain from a car accident, and this was apparently the only thing that stopped the pain?  (As an aside, narcotics certainly do have a place for pain; but so do non-steroidal drugs, physical therapy, acupuncture, etc.) Whatever circumstances brought a person to use the drugs, the outcome is similarly dangerous: once the drugs are in their system, their reasoning is muddled.  If you know someone suffering from mental illness, you can imagine what neurochemical muddling might look like.

We all need to educate ourselves about this growing overdose epidemic.  But horrible tragedies like this don’t just make me sad, they infuriate me.  For all the Hollywood stars who die annually from drug overdoses, you think the message would get out there: drugs aren’t cool.  Cocaine or heroin or PCP or crystal meth don’t promote any societal or personal goods. They don’t further any important revolution or rebellion.  They don’t make their users any more attractive, talented, or charitable.  Instead, they are a selfish attempt at personal pleasure; they destroy health, careers, families, and societies.  They can lead to heart attacks, violence, psychosis, and the spread of Hepatitis and HIV.  The drug demand in the U.S. fuels the cartels that perpetrate the countless deaths and kidnappings in Mexico–of teachers, mothers, children.  You want to see the real face of drugs? It isn’t the back parking lot, where the “cool kids” hang out.  It’s the homeless shelter; it’s the hospital bed; it’s the cemetery.  It’s the decapitated teacher in Mexico, or the weeping mother in the U.S.  In several cities, there has been a movement to show online the ‘Faces of Meth‘ before and after a few years of methamphetamine use–shocking images.  So sad that something as harmless as the Ephedra plant or as beautiful as the red Poppy, could–in the hands of a fallen humanity–cause so much harm.

We humans are broken and fallible enough as it is–the last thing we need is something to muddle things worse with drugs.  I just wish that the maxim “Just say no to drugs” didn’t sound so trite, or that the slogan “Drugs, sex, and rock n’ roll” didn’t still have its popular appeal.

In the least, I hope you, the reader, is a little more informed of some of the dangers of drugs, particularly prescription pain medicines. I wish it were an easy problem to fix, or that we didn’t need these narcotic medicines (or benzodiazepines or amphetamines or other potentially harmful drugs) so badly for disease.

If you know anyone at risk of abuse, please make sure they get help.  They may well need it.

Kyrie, eleison.

Requiescat in pace.


The CDC on Prescription Painkiller Overdoses

More on Prescription Painkiller Overdoses from the CDC

The CDC on Poisoning

Sonnet and Reflection on Mary

December 21, 2012

Shall I Compare Thee to a Summer Rose?

Evoking W. Shakespeare’s “Sonnet 18”

Shall I compare thee to a summer rose?

Nay, thou art more fair, for thy blushing face,

Pinked at Gabriel’s “Hail, full of grace,”

Did not wilt when it tasted Beth’lem’s snow,

Abandoned. And thou hast no thorns, save those

Plucked from thy babe’s bloodied brows. This thy bud

No pruning lacked, and yet his sacred blood

Dropped petal-like when, shorn with steel, your hearts froze.

Thou flower ne’er deflowered, give us thy fruit–

Not Eden’s folly, but Jesse’s saving shoot.



“The Annunciation,” by Henry Ossawa Tanner, the first African American artist to win international acclaim.

For some of us Catholics, the question of Mary can be a source of embarrassment.  We have to clarify, particularly to our Protestant brothers, that no, we do not worship Mary. That yes, we acknowledge she is only human. That yes, that ultimately it is God/Jesus who saves.

But, the more I have come in contact with mothers (as both a pediatrician and uncle), the more I have come to respect Mary. We cannot underestimate the significance of motherhood. One can recall the alleged Jesuit maxim, “Give me a child for seven years, and I will give you a man” … or is the purported quotation from Vladimir Lenin: “Give me a child for the first five years of his life, and he will be mine forever.”  Babies take in more then we give them credit for. As do fetuses: recent studies are showing how prenatal events can influence humans long term (e.g. how stress or smoking in a pregnant woman can affect the child for the rest of his/her life, e.g. increasing obesity).

So it stands to reason that we should care about (probably) the most influential person in the life of Jesus–who is himself the center of faith for 2 billion persons, and undoubtedly the most influential person in the history of the Western world.

I do not wish to give a lengthy discourse as to why Mary is so amazing. Plenty of erudite articles have addressed this.

Suffice a few points for consideration:

-Mary watched her own son’s tortuous death. That fact alone is worthy of all the reflection, music, and artwork Mary has received. Simeon’s words were something of an understatement: “And your own heart a sword will pierce” (Lk 2:35).

-Despite the occasional mockery of Mary by pop figures such as Madonna, it is hard to criticize this impoverished Jewish woman. Really. What kind of person insults Mary? (Whereas it seems that just about every other adult in the history of the world has at least one major critic).

-Like her son, Mary endured significant physical hardship and poverty. What kind of mom gives birth in a stable, and puts her baby in a place where cows eat? A hero for the poor worldwide.

-Mary shows a selfless sort of abandon/love for others. Think of how she rushed to visit her pregnant cousin Elizabeth (Lk 1:39), a journey of some 100 miles, precisely when she was starting her own pregnancy (and liable to be criticized for the same).

-She stated that “all generations will call me blessed.” (Lk 1:48). So Christians should call her blessed.

-Per an old Buddhist professor of mine, early feminist gains have a lot to do with the Biblical/early Christian elevation of Mary. The status of women was heightened thanks to Mary (and to Jesus, of course). Think of the early Christian virgins who refused to be married, who could do with their money as they pleased (hard to find something similar in the Roman Empire prior).

-Per the Biblical account, Mary freely surrendered her will, her entire life, to God. How many of us, if told that we had to set our own plans aside to do something very different, something requiring great sacrifice… how many of us would just say, “Behold the handmaid of the Lord. Do as you say.” (Lk 1:38)?

-Mary’s humility is humbling. She exemplifies the sort of attitude of ‘turning the other cheek’ which her Son later preached. She never complains, nor does she ever claim any credit for her crucial role in the history of the world.  The entire first half of the ‘Hail Mary’ (which is purely Biblical), points to how God is working wonders in Mary’s life, rather than pointing to Mary’s own great attributes. Hail, full of grace (God has favored her, filled her with grace), the Lord is with thee (He has decided to abide with thee); blessed art thou amongst women (God blesses thee), and blessed is the fruit of thy womb (Jesus is blessed). The “Magnificat” has much more of the same.

-Jesus said, “Behold, your mother” to the “beloved disciple” (Jn 19:26)… an act long interpreted as giving Mary as the mother of all disciples (i.e., as mother of all Christians, of the whole church). Furthermore, this act of Jesus’ — to entrust his mother’s care to a non-relative, proves that Jesus did not have any living blood siblings (which suggests that Mary did not have any children after Jesus). If he did, then it would have been well-nigh criminal to disown one’s mother outside of one’s own family.

Numerous parallels have been discussed, whether by ancient Christians or more recent scholars, between New Testament accounts of Mary and the Old Testament (Eve, the Ark of the Covenant, etc.). So there actually is a good deal about Mary in the Bible.

Well, that’s all I have for now.


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